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Mistakes Wives Make in Marriage and How to Remedy Them

A scripture-grounded ebook for Christian wives who feel stuck — written by a woman who was born again, Spirit-filled, and still making a mess of her marriage. Until she surrendered to the Word.

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What’s inside this book

Six chapters. Six mistakes. Six biblical remedies. Each one named, examined, and answered with scripture and practical wisdom. Each chapter closes with three Reflection Questions — making it suitable for personal study or a small group.

01

Ignoring Scriptural Wisdom

Every other mistake in this book branches from this one. When wives rely on instinct, culture, or advice columns instead of the Word of God, they build on sand. Human wisdom in a God-designed institution consistently leads to a dead end.

02

Trying to Change Your Husband

His heart is not yours to steer. Proverbs 21:1 makes clear that only God can change a man — and the tool God has given you for that work is not better arguments. It is prayer. Prayer travels where words are not permitted.

03

Mothering and Nagging

The intuition and discernment that make a wife invaluable can, if unchecked, tip into control and condescension. A nagging wife is like a constant drip — seemingly harmless, but slowly destroying the structure beneath it.

04

Respecting Him Only When It's Convenient

In one study, 74% of men said they would rather feel unloved than disrespected. Ephesians 5:33 does not say “when he earns it.” Respect is not a reward for good behaviour. It is a posture — commanded and unconditional.

05

Submitting to Him but Not as Unto the Lord

When a husband is the target of submission, everything depends on whether he is acting right. There is a reframe that makes obedience sustainable — and it changes everything. This is the most liberating chapter in the book.

06

Withholding Your Help

The Hebrew word for suitable helper is Ezer — the same word used to describe God helping humanity. It carries connotations of strength, support, and rescue. Being a helper is not a diminished role. It is one of the most powerful things you can be.

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About the Author

Keren Kanyago

Keren Kanyago is a Christian writer, wife, and mother of two from Nairobi, Kenya. She is a contributor to Crosswalk, iBelieve, Christianity.com, Family Fire, and Propel Women, with over 55 published articles on marriage, parenting, and faith.

She writes not from a pulpit but from the trail — her own marriage, her own surrender, and her own time mining the scriptures for what God actually says about how a wife is to conduct herself. She was born again, Spirit-filled, and still making her husband miserable, until she stopped trusting her instincts and started trusting the Word.

She writes with the conviction that the scriptures are the true compass in a believer’s life — not theory, not advice columns, but the living, active word of God applied to the real things wives face every day. Mistakes Wives Make in Marriage (and How to Remedy Them) is her first ebook.

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